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Minggu, 11 November 2012

ALMOST EVERYONE WOULD EVER FALL INI LOVE

Almost everyone would ever fall in love. Not infrequently, who would do everything to have it. In fact, there is a woman desperate to marry her boyfriend spirits to appreciate the power of love. Is this the so-called true love?
Consider the following indicators to ascertain whether the current partner is your true love.

Communication
Communication that connects very important in a relationship. If you find it difficult to find topics of conversation with him, or the important things in life, this is a big problem.
A healthy relationship should be colored with a light discussion about anything, not just daily life. For example, talk about the past, the future, life goals, beliefs, hobbies, work, or the personality of each. If you feel able to share their stories without fear of criticism, may be he is your true love.
Confidence
True love will not be born
without trust. Honesty can deepen the relationship, but you can not build on a foundation that does not contain a trust from the beginning.
Self-sacrifice
Ask yourself if it is enough self-sacrifice and the sacrifice of your own. Flashback to the things that make your relationship and emotionally disturbed him.
Are you both put others in dealing with problems in the relationship. If sacrifice himself and you just a little bit, maybe it is not true love. What you have is a relationship that could quickly become codependent.
Changes and Acceptance
True love includes a willingness to change yourself for the sake of a couple. Is the change of future plans, interior decorating preferences, or others. It also includes the ability to receive and secure feeling of being accepted.
True love means that you can see your partner's fault, but you accept them as a part of your life. You do not have to feel that you have to act, talk, dress, think or feel a certain way to be accepted into their loved ones.
Respect
Mutual respect means not always agree with each other, but it does not mean that on a basic level you extend courtesy and tolerance with each other even in the midst of strife. You must respect the rights of each are different.
And, you have to find a way to compromise and tolerance of each other at times, even when you do not feel like giving way. In fact, the hallmark of true love is that you still choose to treat others with respect and tender, even when you feel otherwise.
Autonomy
True love is supposed to make you stronger, not too dependent on him. Someone who really loves you will encourage you to live, think, act, breathe, pursue their dreams and face the challenges with full support and love behind your life.
Affection
Compassion is important in a relationship. Not only in physical form, but also other romantic touches.

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